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I have debt. My husband does not. We don’t hold any joint accounts. He pays his bills and I pay mine (just like if we were single). I pay for groceries. He pays for his (our) house & the utilities.

My husband’s view is that my debt is my debt and mine only. He does not intend to help me pay it down in any way. I have not asked him to and am working on paying it down myself.

He tells me that I’m the reason we can’t move forward in our relationship (buy a new house/have kids) because I have to pay down my debt first.

He has the means to help me pay down my debt. And I’ve explained that if he were to do so, we could move forward in our relationship a lot sooner.

Am I wrong to think he should help me pay down my debt? How did you & your spouse handle debt incurred before marriage?

My thought is that most people combine their money into one account when they get married, they pay bills first, put some money into a savings, and then work on paying off the debt they have between them TOGETHER. Am I completely out of my mind? (Don’t worry – I won’t hold it against you if you say so!)

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More details: My husband is 35 and I’m 28. I went to a 4 year college, have federal loans (around K) at a minimal interest rate, graduated in 2006 and have 6 more years till they’re paid off. He went to a technical school & paid as he went. I use my credit card for everything and use all my cash to pay it down every month. A bad habit I started long ago and I’m working to change. I was K in debt when we got married (he knew this) and am now about K in debt 2 years later. The source of the debt is not things like Jimmy Choo’s & Prada bags, but too much spent on groceries at Walmart, too much spent on Christmas presents, too much spent on birthday cards, gifts, babyshowers, etc. He makes about K more than I do. No prenup was ever signed or anything like that. And since we’ve been married I’ve been trying to be like him & live within my means. I feel I’m doing a great job. For him, though it’s not getting paid down fast enough.

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my brother has been doing his own business for the past years, and is not doing well, he does not want to end it and in a lot of debts, he does not go to his office for sometime now but insist that his business still in operation.he turns to gambling for big money but end up losing more and still keep finding people to invest or funds his company.
i had so many time ask him to wind up the business, get a job, paid all debt and start afresh but he say if he closed now, he loses big sum of money. Nobody in the family is able to get thru to him.

i actually enstranged from him for almost a year( i really pissed off, becoz we sold our house to clear his debts) , he himself never even give a phone call my parents since then.

Recently he called me up and saying he havind a very rough time and ask for a small amount of loan, but i do not agree and say if he want my help he can come back to my new house anytime ( i did so becoz my mother misses and worry about him too much) and yes he did come back after a month. and is only been a week and i think i’m losing it….

ok here are the point and what should i do? (B4 his financial crisis, he is a very resposible young man, why this is happening?)
1. i believes that his company is not in operation, even if it does, it must be in a very bad shape.
2. he gambled if he has the money (he also loses a lot in share market before) he just want big money now
3. few thousand dollars is not enough monthly salary for him and he rather sit in from of a computer keep posting for people to buy his company or asking for loan
4. he potentially will go to illegal money lender??!! i know…
5. he is turning into a loser who don’t want to get a job, just eat and sleep and everything is free.
6. OMG, can he still be saved??