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My boyfriends parents absolutely HATE me. What do i do about this? If we’re on the phone, they find a lame excuse to interupt. If he’s coming home to visit me [hes 3 hours away with his dad helping him out with his back problems AND hes 23 and we've been together A WHILE], his dad tells him he doesn’t want him coming to visit me because he thinks ill abduct him! WTF! thats just nonsense! They are ruining our relationship and he knows it but they’re really helping him out financially as long as he helps his dad out. He isnt in debt but they’re helping him safe so when he comes home in a few weeks he can get an apartment and not have to live with his old roomates that screwed him over. How do i handle this?

my boyfriends in the middle of a divorce! he and his ex have been very reasonable but his ex wife to be has recently discovered what she can take from him and is suddenly turning a little nasty. my boyfriend offered to pay more than a reasonable amount for the two children, gave her the house without a fight, is paying off her car and £15000 worth of debts just so she doesn’t need to worry about a thing while taking care of two children. she does work and earns a fair bit, but has recently discovered that she can take my partners police pension. this will leave him with nothing if she does, he moved into a house a few months ago and still doesn’t have any real furniture as all his money goes to the to be ex wife, also he’s working twice as hard just so he can have a little extra money that he doesn’t get to see! can he fight to keep the pension? is there anywhere online he can get free legal advise, citizens advice was no good so far! please help, thank you
for the record, my partner has not cheated on his wife with me. they have been separated for two years and are a few months into sorting the divorce proceedings.
next, he has been unable to pay for a lawyer so far as the debts are leaving him with very little each month, so far both sides are going on advice of the english citizens advice where a free solicitor is at hand who he has seen a few times so far.
also, i may have mentioned but the children are in school and his ex to be work while they learn, she has a great income.
the reason my partner has offered to pay more than required is because she went into depression from worry and he doesnt want his children to see her like that.
he has a heart of gold, and as i may have said, shes a very nice woman, shes just trying to grab all she can without realising what he will lose
also, to the person who said i have no idea at what it is like raising kids, i have two of my own and a deceased husband
one last thing, im not getting involved, he tells me all about it, if he wants advice i try my best to give it but otherwise i stay clear, i just feel helpless which is why i have asked this question. i just want to make him smile by giving him some good news

I am working full-time but live from pay check to paycheck because of pay-day loans, and other old debts,that I have been trying to pay off for years, I have horrible credit and its getting worse because I can’t pay off the old stuff to keep up with the current. I have a new man in my life and want to be able to start fresh without mine and my deceased husbands debts interfering. I don’t want information on free grants, I need a legitimate loan that I can personally take care of. I do not want him to feel responsible, and if something should happen to me, I don’t want my children to be responsible either, life has been hard enough on them. I own nothing, and I pay the utilties at my boyfriends house in lieu of paying rent, I drive a ten year old car that still isn’t paid off. I want to borrow, pay everything from past off and make one payment to one place, so I can get caught up. This is important to me. I’m not looking for hand outs.