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my boyfriends in the middle of a divorce! he and his ex have been very reasonable but his ex wife to be has recently discovered what she can take from him and is suddenly turning a little nasty. my boyfriend offered to pay more than a reasonable amount for the two children, gave her the house without a fight, is paying off her car and £15000 worth of debts just so she doesn’t need to worry about a thing while taking care of two children. she does work and earns a fair bit, but has recently discovered that she can take my partners police pension. this will leave him with nothing if she does, he moved into a house a few months ago and still doesn’t have any real furniture as all his money goes to the to be ex wife, also he’s working twice as hard just so he can have a little extra money that he doesn’t get to see! can he fight to keep the pension? is there anywhere online he can get free legal advise, citizens advice was no good so far! please help, thank you
for the record, my partner has not cheated on his wife with me. they have been separated for two years and are a few months into sorting the divorce proceedings.
next, he has been unable to pay for a lawyer so far as the debts are leaving him with very little each month, so far both sides are going on advice of the english citizens advice where a free solicitor is at hand who he has seen a few times so far.
also, i may have mentioned but the children are in school and his ex to be work while they learn, she has a great income.
the reason my partner has offered to pay more than required is because she went into depression from worry and he doesnt want his children to see her like that.
he has a heart of gold, and as i may have said, shes a very nice woman, shes just trying to grab all she can without realising what he will lose
also, to the person who said i have no idea at what it is like raising kids, i have two of my own and a deceased husband
one last thing, im not getting involved, he tells me all about it, if he wants advice i try my best to give it but otherwise i stay clear, i just feel helpless which is why i have asked this question. i just want to make him smile by giving him some good news