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I’ve dated my ex for two years. We’ve always had problems with outside influences like family and friends. But when it’s just us two, everything feels so good and being anywhere else would be stupid. He’s my best friend and we connect in so many ways. I broke up with him because at the time i felt he wasn’t being honest to me and he was taking on too many outside opinions. On top of it he was drinking too much and i felt he was constantly trying to talk to other girls. But i learned a lot of those thoughts were do to my insecurities. A year went by and i found myself not being able to move on because i still had deep feeling for him. We started talking again but we rushed everything and he told me he needed to end what ever we had going because mentally he wasn’t ready to be in a relationship because he wasn’t happy with himself and he couldn’t make anyone happy in that state. It broke my heart because he made me believe he was ready but then told me he wasn’t. And because of that i feel depression in many aspects, feeling insecure and not good enough. I was at a point where i hated him, but thanks to a friend who helped me see his point of view i forgave him and told him we should just stop talking and maybe we could be friends in the future. He’s back now because i’ve let him back in. But he has changed in soo many ways. He seems more motivated in life and he’s stop drinking. He’s also almost debt free which was another problem we had. He seems more mature and responsible. The thing is tho he talks about wanting to get back together with me but not right away because he needs to focus on his goals of paying his debt before he can fully give himself to me. I don’t know weather i should trust him? If he’s not ready now, will he ever be? And a good part of me feels like he has too prove to me that he’s serious about really wanting to be with me? And on top of it all he says he’s scared of marriage because he doesn’t want to be hurt. I do have deep feelings for him and i can see ourselves living a happy life together. But is it worth all this? How do i trust he won’t break my heart again? or maybe he broke my heart because i broke his heart first? Please i clearly need some advice

Well, please just bare with me here. I know its long, but I feel I need help.

My parents are divorcing- I don’t mind, they have been seperated for years but just live in the same house.

My mother has serious mental health issues, which my Dad and I and my whole family have tried to help, she has been put in a mental hospital for three weeks on suicide watch, but she doesn’t want to help herself. As such, she has a gambling problem, and well over ,000 on multiple credit cards.

She works two jobs and whenver we have fights (often) she also complains how she has to work so hard, but she only needs to work at all to pay off her debts, which my family only recently found out about we couldn’t help before it got serious.

I get so mad because she hasn’t helped contribute to paying the family bills for months, meaning she gets a free ride. The house is being sold at the moment, but it could take some time so she gets to live and eat here for free- it makes me so mad.

I have a little brother, who wants to split his time 50/50 between each parent, but my Mum wants him to live with her, so she buys him gifts all the time, takes him out for dinners, gets him DVDs or whatever in front of me. Now I know its shallow and I shouldnt care, but I am sort of jealous. It seems so unfair she lives for free, and uses the rest on my brother to buy him presents and such. Now she has called me every name under the sun, told me she wishes I was dead, wrote a sucide note from her blaming me for her depression, disowned me, slapped me, broke my arm… so she isn’t a parent, but I can’t help feeling so depressed that I don’t have a mother. I feel like I can’t talk to my friends about it because they all have both parents and I can’t tell them about her gambling because she works at my school and would get fired if someone found out (I have considered it but Dad wouldn’t let me).

I guess, in summary, after years of physical and emotional abuse from her, it’s finally sunken in I have no mother, and her sucking up to my brother has rubbed salt in the wound.

If someone has advice or support if you know what I should do, or have been in a comparable situation, I would appreciate it greatly.

True or False. Are all debts forgiven if a depression were to happen. I heard this a while back and wondered if there is any truth to it. Thanks.

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