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Hi. I’m 28, male, a happy person, but lately I’m just completely lost in my life. I moved to NYC about a yr ago, and I love this city, dont have that many friends but I still have a few and have had a good time here. I am very unhappy with my job, I am a graphic designer and I work with a huge corporation making big corporate brand packaging. Most designers would probably love this job, but Im not that type of person(Im more laid back hippie type that likes art, not corporate sell out i guess you could say) This job keeps me up at night stressed about the work, I feel I have aged 5 yrs in the last year because of it, and because of the enourmous rent I was paying this last year 2650 a month! Things kind of fell apart this last year, or rather didnt happen the way I had planned. I originally moved to NY with my ex gf and a friend, and only ended up in that 2650 a month apt because I was trying to help my ex gf. She was going to school near it. Boy was that a mistake, she ended up leaving NYC along with my friend and they basically ditched me with a huge mess of rent and stress. So the job I had taken on a short term basis ended up becomming a full time thing because I needed the money. I feel blessed to have a job at all, but lately Ive felt like Im just getting by and not actually living my life. There is so much I want to do, take pictures, travel, meet new people and play an instrument, but lately Ive just been so trapped in my head thinking about work stuff, how broke i am and how Im in terrible debt even though I work all the time, and about my ex gf drama. I feel lonely sometimes, but more then that I just feel lost. Sometimes I think it be better to just get a non thinking job like bartending or something so I can allow my brain to free up and focus on y fine art photography and stuff? I dunno, Im so confused these days, maybe I should just move out of NYC, and move somewhere cheaper? I dunno either, Im 28 and sick of moving so much, and would like to settle down in a city and actually make a group of friends. I am havign a bad day….
Thanks for your advice

Hello, I am 19 years old and work full time but have no license due to some trouble I got in to

Anyways,
I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we’ve had two places together and we are in a lot of debt. So we decided to move in to his dads place for free rent. His dad hasn’t been living there so we thought it would be a good time to move in.
His 26 year old sister who goes to school also decided to move in. My boyfriend and I thought it best to take the 2nd biggest bedroom in the house because we are two, and she is one. but she insisted (just took the 2nd biggest room anyway) that she have the biggest room.
So after a small battle, she won and we took an 8×10 bedroom for TWO people.
While his dad has not been living here, he told us that we could take the master bedroom (and that we could keep it if we wanted but we decided that was unfair!)
We decided to let his sister know that the Master bedroom was up for takes if she really wanted it, that way she could have a room; walk in closet; and bathroom all to herself!
she declined saying it was too much space. Anyhow, now his dad is moving back in and we’ve cleaned out the tiny room to make it liveable for us. there is a tiny bathroom across the hall that his sister has been using and we agreed in the beginning that my boyfriend and I would take the small bathroom and his sister and dad could share the master (because it might be awkward for me to be running back and forth in the morning getting ready)

now,
my bfs sister decided she wants the tiny bathroom, and she said I could "share it" with her…I was a little upset at first but because its not my house I cannot fight over something that isnt mine. so I asked her to clear out one drawer in the bathroom for me so that I can put my makeup and hair things in their. to this she answered, "no! it’s mine and youre being selfish for wanting it"

Therefore, I have to share a bathroom with my boyfriend AND his 60 year old father.

Side note:
another thing, about 2 years ago she left a few "decorations" lying around and they were just sitting in the room that we have so I put the bulletin board on the wall and the lamp on the table (that haven’t been used for 2 years)
anyway, today she came through the room and took all of "her things" out …

PLEASE help.. I just want to know why she is doing this or what I can do to make things better???
Also another thing;
(just a side question/statement)
she has never once cleaned the house. yet she’ll get upset if it is dirty. she leaves her dirty dishes lying around and has yet to do dishes here. when the trash was full she set the garbage on top of it. also, the other day she put my dog outside and when a thunder storm came she decided to just leave him out there but bring her dog inside.

ALSO:
she refused to pay cable/internet but she uses it more often than we Do! on our computers and tvs! and she gets upset when I ask her if I can use the computer for a few minutes..??? am i Missing something here?