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have lost their car… I am in japan as I am in the military. I cant go home and get them oput of debt because they are supporting my brother. i talkd long and hard with my brother but i think it went right through his thick skull. How can i get him to see that he is ruining my parents retirement and life because he is too damn lazy to support his wife, mother in law and two kids? They got my grandmothers house free all they have to do is pay the mortage and they cant even do that. I dont have the money or time to deal with them. I work 12 hour shifts just to argue with them on the phone for four its taking up my life… i have done all the talking routes what is left to do??? Please any advice woud be great…

Should i sell low now or wait? I have a house here in silicon valley and have a little bit of equity. Me and my wife are raising three kids and i am getting sick and tired of paying 00 a month on mortgage. With my equity, i can get a fairly nice house but i have to move 60 miles away from work and family. The good thing is i be mortgage or debt free and i can use that money to save for my retirement and college money for the kids. My wife and my kids do not like the idea. My kids said they don’t want to leave their friends and start all over again. My wife said there is no way she would communte daily 120 miles a day roundtrip. I know it would be hard for them in the beginning but i know i am doing the right thing for us financially. What should i do? My wife and i make about 0,000 combine income and it’s not enough here in silicon valley.